Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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rate me! rate me!

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heres just a little sugestion, but how about people stop with all these posts such as "heres my pic how can i improve my looks" apart from anything dont you think a girls oppinion would be better.

We certainly dont need anymore posts saying "rate these girls" this is not a porn site.

if diablo wants to brag about his partys by showing us pics well thats fine but do not post pics for us to rate you or to rate some girl on a website. There really is no need what do you think this is, queer eye for the straight eye? well go and get a girls oppinion.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why?

Whats so wrong with them? People want help, thats why they're here. So either help or get over it.
 

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yeah but to be qualifed to help them properly look more attractive ot girls, you got to be queer or have a pu$$ey so they will find much better help elsewhere.
 

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I don't agree with that. I'm not gay, or have a *****, but i have a good sense of style (or so i've been told by many women), i don't mind giving out advice (it's why i stay here). If you don't like them, don't read them.
 

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i give advice about it aswell but im still sure a girl would be better at it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why? you're just falling into sterotypes
 

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they know weather they are attracted to it or not, we just go by our eyes, what looks good to us.
 

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Orignally posted by check_mate_kid_uk

do they like skin heads? thats like asking fo they prefer loud guys to quite guys, each girl will have her own prefrence.
Contradiction. Check mate, kid.

Seriously, if they want advice, there are no rules that say they can't, just because you don't like it, it doesn't mean they have to go.
 

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By that logic, only personal trainers and bodybuilders are qualified to give advice on the Health and Fitness board. People can give tips based on what works for them, just like that forum. It makes sense to me.

As an aside, I don't trust women's style advice. If you tell every guy on this forum to go ask his female friends to help him with style, you'll end up with a bunch of "nice guy" looking or poorly dressed guys, because there are just as many poorly dressed women in the world as there are men - we just don't notice because most guys don't care. Guys who get a lot of compliments on their personal style should share their tips with whoever asks.
 

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Posting party pictures is equal to bragging in your eyes, Checkmate? Other than the pictures themselves, are there any words I might have uttered that would back up that interpretation of yours? Apparently I've been coming off in the wrong way, if that's truly what you believe; either that or you're insecure.

As for the 'help me improve my look', I don't see anything wrong with it. The DJB helps improve game and confidence, why shouldn't people on the board have a way of getting customized and personalized advice regarding what sort of style they would look better sporting? There are plenty of guys around that have fashion sense, and they aren't gay (as you implied), either. Sure, some of the guys might give bad advice, but I'm certain that some girls would give bad advice as well.

On to the "RATE THIS GIRL" threads. I agree entirely. They are completely worthless in my views. What's the point of coming onto SS only to find thread after thread of "HOW HAWT IS THIS GIRL??", "RATE THIS HB", "TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT SO-AND-SO". If the pictures are of people the poster actually knows, or is considering pursuing, then sure... post away. If it's of a supermodel, or a porn star, well save that **** for jacking off to, not for spamming the forum. By the way, "RATE MY PIC" threads are deleted as soon as they're come across as per forum rules (we do have a 'PICS ONLY, NO RESPONSES' thread in which they are to be posted).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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when i said braging about your partys i didnt mean it in a bad way, thats just the first word that came to mind and i couldnt be bothered to tihnk of a better way to put it.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
heres just a little sugestion, but how about people stop with all these posts such as "heres my pic how can i improve my looks" apart from anything dont you think a girls oppinion would be better.

We certainly dont need anymore posts saying "rate these girls" this is not a porn site.

if diablo wants to brag about his partys by showing us pics well thats fine but do not post pics for us to rate you or to rate some girl on a website. There really is no need what do you think this is, queer eye for the straight eye? well go and get a girls oppinion.
Preach





Diablo,
Keep on with the party pics I envy you ;)
 
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How about you don't open threads that you feel are a waste of your time. For instance, had I known the topic of this one I wouldn't have clicked on it.
 
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