"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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toddC

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Okay, I need SERIOUS help building rapport. I look at one of my best friends and he can have a 2 hr convo with a girl about anything in the world and she'll open up to him and **** whereas i'll tlak to a girl for liek 5-10 mins and i don't know how to build ANY rapport...I"ve read articles and it still doesn't seem to help. I can do pretty much everytrhing else fine. HELP ME!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smooth Player 056

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Rapport is a huge topic, probably the most important out of all the seduction phases. Read the Rapport section or (covo) section in the bible
 

toddC

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Okay, and not that this has ANYTHING to do with anything on this but smooth...coudl you emial me the HSDJ bootcamp @ [email protected] , that would be of a great help too :) thanks.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, I need SERIOUS help building rapport. I look at one of my best friends and he can have a 2 hr convo with a girl about anything in the world and she'll open up to him and **** whereas i'll tlak to a girl for liek 5-10 mins and i don't know how to build ANY rapport...I"ve read articles and it still doesn't seem to help. I can do pretty much everytrhing else fine. HELP ME!!!
so u cant keep talking for more than 10 mins??
 
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