Okay, I need SERIOUS help building rapport. I look at one of my best friends and he can have a 2 hr convo with a girl about anything in the world and she'll open up to him and **** whereas i'll tlak to a girl for liek 5-10 mins and i don't know how to build ANY rapport...I"ve read articles and it still doesn't seem to help. I can do pretty much everytrhing else fine. HELP ME!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Rapport is a huge topic, probably the most important out of all the seduction phases. Read the Rapport section or (covo) section in the bible
Okay, and not that this has ANYTHING to do with anything on this but smooth...coudl you emial me the HSDJ bootcamp @ [email protected] , that would be of a great help too 
thanks.
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