"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rant thread...at the risk of sounding like a chump

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Not really asking for advice, just wanted to get this out.

I'm "friends" (not very close) with this girl at my university. She had a boyfriend when I met her, and it was when I was just starting to improve with girls. I am pretty sure I friendzoned myself. Whatever, I don't really care.

Well she's single now (saw on Facebook...) and she was over at my place today. I felt so awkward...normally I would escalate at that point, but I wouldn't wanna get blown out...I mean I'd like to keep her around as a friend.

But at the same time, if she was expecting me to make a move and is frustrated that I didn't...I feel bad about that too!

Ugh. You'll have to take my word for it that when I am actively pursuing a girl I'm not this timid...I make a ho say no ;) I just don't know what her intentions are, and it bugs me! Oh well, I think I'll just try to friendzone myself, I got other plates to worry about.

I'd love to tap that azz though, but I guess it's not worth the risk :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rejection is better than regret.
 
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squirrels said:
Girls make sh!tty friends. Tap it.
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Definitely agree with this.

over 90% of the girl FRIENDS i had tried to sleep with me. After a long enough time of failing we fell out of touch or more like they lost interest.

The other 10% were the ones i tried to sleep with. We still talk time to time haha.
 
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ARrocket said:
I'd love to tap that azz though, but I guess it's not worth the risk :rolleyes:
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What risk? You said she's not a close friend anyway.

When you see her ask her to turn round. Then tell her to bend over. Then whistle and say 'lovely view' and smack her arse.

If she tells you where to go, grin and tell her she loves it.

If she never talks to you again, so what? She won't though. Women love a man to take control like that. But you have to do it with confidence. Don't stumble or stutter. Go...and be a man my son.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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