"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rant thread...at the risk of sounding like a chump

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Not really asking for advice, just wanted to get this out.

I'm "friends" (not very close) with this girl at my university. She had a boyfriend when I met her, and it was when I was just starting to improve with girls. I am pretty sure I friendzoned myself. Whatever, I don't really care.

Well she's single now (saw on Facebook...) and she was over at my place today. I felt so awkward...normally I would escalate at that point, but I wouldn't wanna get blown out...I mean I'd like to keep her around as a friend.

But at the same time, if she was expecting me to make a move and is frustrated that I didn't...I feel bad about that too!

Ugh. You'll have to take my word for it that when I am actively pursuing a girl I'm not this timid...I make a ho say no ;) I just don't know what her intentions are, and it bugs me! Oh well, I think I'll just try to friendzone myself, I got other plates to worry about.

I'd love to tap that azz though, but I guess it's not worth the risk :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rejection is better than regret.
 
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squirrels said:
Girls make sh!tty friends. Tap it.
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Definitely agree with this.

over 90% of the girl FRIENDS i had tried to sleep with me. After a long enough time of failing we fell out of touch or more like they lost interest.

The other 10% were the ones i tried to sleep with. We still talk time to time haha.
 
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ARrocket said:
I'd love to tap that azz though, but I guess it's not worth the risk :rolleyes:
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What risk? You said she's not a close friend anyway.

When you see her ask her to turn round. Then tell her to bend over. Then whistle and say 'lovely view' and smack her arse.

If she tells you where to go, grin and tell her she loves it.

If she never talks to you again, so what? She won't though. Women love a man to take control like that. But you have to do it with confidence. Don't stumble or stutter. Go...and be a man my son.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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