"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rank the 3(Looks, Status, Money) from most important to least important

CornbreadFed

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Looks - You have the most control over this and it is a fact that women care about looks/style the most.

Status- Not everyone can be famous, but status is the pretty effective in getting women. No, you don’t have to be an actor or musician, but you can obtain status via certain jobs such as bartending/event planners or become a quasi status symbol in your own social circle, workplace, or hobby group.

Money- I think this is the worst method of obtaining women because this will always put you in the losing position with women. Women treat these men like dog poop compared to the other guys. Also, high interest women tend to buy me stuff/be okay with sharing the bill in general.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Plinco

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I agree except I'd put how you carry yourself and your attitude above looks. Guys that have trouble with women usually have mental issues. I can tell you from my experience that I do better with women when I'm happy, and can't pull to save my life if I have problems going on.
 

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OP,

For just getting laid you have the correct sequence.

However, for LTRs with hot women it is Status, followed by money, followed by looks.
 

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It depends on the type of relationship, so I agree with @Barrister

1. Looks
2. Money
3. Status

Money and status are closely aligned and difficult to separate.

Money can get a man laid by directly paying for it. Some men do that.

It's difficult to have status without having money.

Being a bartender or nightclub DJ can be status without a lot of money. Being a bouncer is a combination of looks (big muscles) and status and can get you a girlfriend who is a stripper or hot bartender.
 

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The correct answer is:
1. Looks
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2. Status
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3. Money

Looks is by far the biggest factor. But it largely isnt something you can work on, it's mostly your face and your genetics you were born with, such as your shoulder width/frame and height.
You should be reasonably in shape and in healthy but there as long as you arent fat or super skinny, you are fine here.

Status is next. This is mostly being popular on social media or having a large social circle, being an extroverted guy who is into normie trendy things on social media.

Money is last because most people have enough to fulfill whatever needs are necessary here, a car that is somewhat decent, enough money for some drinks on a night out, etc. It is really irrelevant as long as you meet the minimum threshold.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fortune_favors_the_bold

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Depends on your age and hers.

An average looking guy unknown to the crowd but with plenty of cash will do wonder in his 30s but fail in his late 10s and early 20s.

A very goodlooking working as a dj will bang left and right all the way till his late 20s but not later.

Status with no money works great in your 20s but not at all later on.

Money with no status wont get you laid in your 20s but will in your 30s...a wealthy guy running a trash collecting company is perfectly fine by then.
 

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There's none that are objectively most or least important, it depends on the woman and what you're good/bad at.

Status doesn't matter if the girl isn't impressed. It's difficult to DHV a flight attendant with travel stories for example.

Money only matters if you're 30+ and looking for a serious relationship. (Unless you get rich)

Maybe the answer is looks, I can't really think of a scenario where looks doesn't matter at all. It's least important when you're 30+ and looking for an LTR
 
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Thebestthereeveris

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Looks for sex and ONS hands down. Also if you truly have looks down (lean bodyfat, muscular and aesthetic, style) you get some status as people value looks in general (its a superficial world). Keeping a relationship money is def important or signs that you will make a lot of money in the future.
 
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