“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rank the 3(Looks, Status, Money) from most important to least important

CornbreadFed

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Looks - You have the most control over this and it is a fact that women care about looks/style the most.

Status- Not everyone can be famous, but status is the pretty effective in getting women. No, you don’t have to be an actor or musician, but you can obtain status via certain jobs such as bartending/event planners or become a quasi status symbol in your own social circle, workplace, or hobby group.

Money- I think this is the worst method of obtaining women because this will always put you in the losing position with women. Women treat these men like dog poop compared to the other guys. Also, high interest women tend to buy me stuff/be okay with sharing the bill in general.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree except I'd put how you carry yourself and your attitude above looks. Guys that have trouble with women usually have mental issues. I can tell you from my experience that I do better with women when I'm happy, and can't pull to save my life if I have problems going on.
 

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OP,

For just getting laid you have the correct sequence.

However, for LTRs with hot women it is Status, followed by money, followed by looks.
 

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It depends on the type of relationship, so I agree with @Barrister

1. Looks
2. Money
3. Status

Money and status are closely aligned and difficult to separate.

Money can get a man laid by directly paying for it. Some men do that.

It's difficult to have status without having money.

Being a bartender or nightclub DJ can be status without a lot of money. Being a bouncer is a combination of looks (big muscles) and status and can get you a girlfriend who is a stripper or hot bartender.
 

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The correct answer is:
1. Looks
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2. Status
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3. Money

Looks is by far the biggest factor. But it largely isnt something you can work on, it's mostly your face and your genetics you were born with, such as your shoulder width/frame and height.
You should be reasonably in shape and in healthy but there as long as you arent fat or super skinny, you are fine here.

Status is next. This is mostly being popular on social media or having a large social circle, being an extroverted guy who is into normie trendy things on social media.

Money is last because most people have enough to fulfill whatever needs are necessary here, a car that is somewhat decent, enough money for some drinks on a night out, etc. It is really irrelevant as long as you meet the minimum threshold.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Depends on your age and hers.

An average looking guy unknown to the crowd but with plenty of cash will do wonder in his 30s but fail in his late 10s and early 20s.

A very goodlooking working as a dj will bang left and right all the way till his late 20s but not later.

Status with no money works great in your 20s but not at all later on.

Money with no status wont get you laid in your 20s but will in your 30s...a wealthy guy running a trash collecting company is perfectly fine by then.
 

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There's none that are objectively most or least important, it depends on the woman and what you're good/bad at.

Status doesn't matter if the girl isn't impressed. It's difficult to DHV a flight attendant with travel stories for example.

Money only matters if you're 30+ and looking for a serious relationship. (Unless you get rich)

Maybe the answer is looks, I can't really think of a scenario where looks doesn't matter at all. It's least important when you're 30+ and looking for an LTR
 
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Looks for sex and ONS hands down. Also if you truly have looks down (lean bodyfat, muscular and aesthetic, style) you get some status as people value looks in general (its a superficial world). Keeping a relationship money is def important or signs that you will make a lot of money in the future.
 
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