"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I was at work today, a place I've only been working at for a few months. And a guy I've met a few times, big timer in the company, walks by me in the hall and says "How's it going, Jason?" I said fine.

The problem is, my name isn't Jason, my name is Justin. Not that I really care he didn't remember my name, but anytime someone forgets my name they always refer to me as Jason, never any other name.

Anyone else have a common experience like this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FairShake

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element0 said:
So I was at work today, a place I've only been working at for a few months. And a guy I've met a few times, big timer in the company, walks by me in the hall and says "How's it going, Jason?" I said fine.

The problem is, my name isn't Jason, my name is Justin. Not that I really care he didn't remember my name, but anytime someone forgets my name they always refer to me as Jason, never any other name.

Anyone else have a common experience like this?
Oh yeah. Some higher up used to call me Scott. Which isn't even close to my name.

I used to get a kick out of it actually and would go out of my way to engage him so that he would call me Scott for a laugh.

I was too embarrassed to correct him though.
 

vatoloco

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element0 said:
The problem is, my name isn't Jason, my name is Justin. Not that I really care he didn't remember my name, but anytime someone forgets my name they always refer to me as Jason, never any other name.
Do you tend to walk around with a hockey mask on? That could be the problem...

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