"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I was at work today, a place I've only been working at for a few months. And a guy I've met a few times, big timer in the company, walks by me in the hall and says "How's it going, Jason?" I said fine.

The problem is, my name isn't Jason, my name is Justin. Not that I really care he didn't remember my name, but anytime someone forgets my name they always refer to me as Jason, never any other name.

Anyone else have a common experience like this?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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element0 said:
So I was at work today, a place I've only been working at for a few months. And a guy I've met a few times, big timer in the company, walks by me in the hall and says "How's it going, Jason?" I said fine.

The problem is, my name isn't Jason, my name is Justin. Not that I really care he didn't remember my name, but anytime someone forgets my name they always refer to me as Jason, never any other name.

Anyone else have a common experience like this?
Oh yeah. Some higher up used to call me Scott. Which isn't even close to my name.

I used to get a kick out of it actually and would go out of my way to engage him so that he would call me Scott for a laugh.

I was too embarrassed to correct him though.
 

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element0 said:
The problem is, my name isn't Jason, my name is Justin. Not that I really care he didn't remember my name, but anytime someone forgets my name they always refer to me as Jason, never any other name.
Do you tend to walk around with a hockey mask on? That could be the problem...

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