"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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old_skoolr

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Just after an opinion. Have had some girls tell me they love me. Problem is I've never made a move on them. Theres 2 girls, 1 who I've worked with for 3 years and the other works at the cafe I go to, when I order coffee on my break.

Ive not made a move on either as its when Im working and Im a big believer in the saying "Dont **** where you eat." Now my question could these "ILY" be the epitome of friendzone? That even though I might want to make a move in the future that will hold me back? I still treat them like I would any other girl I'd be interested in. Would I have to break out of the friendzone if I changed my mind and wanted to make a move?

Just wanted to know any opinions or if anyone has had any similar expierience. Cheers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Trailboss

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Next time one of them says it, give her the "Don't love me too much: I'm really a devil in disguise.."! Peak her curiosity and ride that wave wherever it takes ya...If your inclined enough to make the move...
 

old_skoolr

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haha not bad, they randomly drop it in between the random "*******" and "****" calls, so they know i love to **** stir them. Funny how womens minds work in that regard.
 

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What makes you think you can get out of the friend zone now? Do you have some diabolical scheme that will all the sudden make her wet for you?

Please share your wisdom! :D

Its a lost cause, find fresh prey!
 

old_skoolr

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Krueg said:
What makes you think you can get out of the friend zone now? Do you have some diabolical scheme that will all the sudden make her wet for you?
Getting out of the friendzone is not my question. I'm flirty with both girls, I just dont act due to my beliefs of work relationships. My question is whether these girls that I flirt with, see me as a friend only. Or can they see me as more if I chose to make a move based on what was mentioned above.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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