"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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old_skoolr

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Just after an opinion. Have had some girls tell me they love me. Problem is I've never made a move on them. Theres 2 girls, 1 who I've worked with for 3 years and the other works at the cafe I go to, when I order coffee on my break.

Ive not made a move on either as its when Im working and Im a big believer in the saying "Dont **** where you eat." Now my question could these "ILY" be the epitome of friendzone? That even though I might want to make a move in the future that will hold me back? I still treat them like I would any other girl I'd be interested in. Would I have to break out of the friendzone if I changed my mind and wanted to make a move?

Just wanted to know any opinions or if anyone has had any similar expierience. Cheers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Next time one of them says it, give her the "Don't love me too much: I'm really a devil in disguise.."! Peak her curiosity and ride that wave wherever it takes ya...If your inclined enough to make the move...
 

old_skoolr

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haha not bad, they randomly drop it in between the random "*******" and "****" calls, so they know i love to **** stir them. Funny how womens minds work in that regard.
 

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What makes you think you can get out of the friend zone now? Do you have some diabolical scheme that will all the sudden make her wet for you?

Please share your wisdom! :D

Its a lost cause, find fresh prey!
 

old_skoolr

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Krueg said:
What makes you think you can get out of the friend zone now? Do you have some diabolical scheme that will all the sudden make her wet for you?
Getting out of the friendzone is not my question. I'm flirty with both girls, I just dont act due to my beliefs of work relationships. My question is whether these girls that I flirt with, see me as a friend only. Or can they see me as more if I chose to make a move based on what was mentioned above.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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