Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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old_skoolr

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Just after an opinion. Have had some girls tell me they love me. Problem is I've never made a move on them. Theres 2 girls, 1 who I've worked with for 3 years and the other works at the cafe I go to, when I order coffee on my break.

Ive not made a move on either as its when Im working and Im a big believer in the saying "Dont **** where you eat." Now my question could these "ILY" be the epitome of friendzone? That even though I might want to make a move in the future that will hold me back? I still treat them like I would any other girl I'd be interested in. Would I have to break out of the friendzone if I changed my mind and wanted to make a move?

Just wanted to know any opinions or if anyone has had any similar expierience. Cheers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Next time one of them says it, give her the "Don't love me too much: I'm really a devil in disguise.."! Peak her curiosity and ride that wave wherever it takes ya...If your inclined enough to make the move...
 

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haha not bad, they randomly drop it in between the random "*******" and "****" calls, so they know i love to **** stir them. Funny how womens minds work in that regard.
 

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What makes you think you can get out of the friend zone now? Do you have some diabolical scheme that will all the sudden make her wet for you?

Please share your wisdom! :D

Its a lost cause, find fresh prey!
 

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Krueg said:
What makes you think you can get out of the friend zone now? Do you have some diabolical scheme that will all the sudden make her wet for you?
Getting out of the friendzone is not my question. I'm flirty with both girls, I just dont act due to my beliefs of work relationships. My question is whether these girls that I flirt with, see me as a friend only. Or can they see me as more if I chose to make a move based on what was mentioned above.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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