"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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random chick messaged me on facebook - how should I respond?

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I got a random message from a random girl:

"
oh my god!!!
you are so hot...
but does the personality match the dude we'll see...
write to me about your self!!!!
"
i took a look at her profile, and she seems pretty hot

how should I reply?

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i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i'm pretty sure this is one of those facebook spams.

how do you know?

1) take a good look at urself.
2) be honest
3) either a) laugh it off or b) message back

99% it's gonna be a) a joke or some spam sh1t.
 
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well...

i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When I used the actual HotOrNot site back in high school, it was basically a bunch of pre-fabricated dialogues from which you could pick and choose your sentences but not say anything yourself. So I'd take it with a grain of salt.
 
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I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
 
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noirsake said:
I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
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i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
 
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kidkurious said:
i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
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You played it well so far. Now is the perfect opportunity to use some C&F :D
 
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Does this chick even live near you? If so, message her back to get her #, then call her and set up a meeting. If not, why are you wasting your time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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