“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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random chick messaged me on facebook - how should I respond?

kidkurious

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I got a random message from a random girl:

"
oh my god!!!
you are so hot...
but does the personality match the dude we'll see...
write to me about your self!!!!
"
i took a look at her profile, and she seems pretty hot

how should I reply?

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i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desert Fox

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i'm pretty sure this is one of those facebook spams.

how do you know?

1) take a good look at urself.
2) be honest
3) either a) laugh it off or b) message back

99% it's gonna be a) a joke or some spam sh1t.
 

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well...

i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When I used the actual HotOrNot site back in high school, it was basically a bunch of pre-fabricated dialogues from which you could pick and choose your sentences but not say anything yourself. So I'd take it with a grain of salt.
 

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I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
 

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noirsake said:
I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
 

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kidkurious said:
i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
You played it well so far. Now is the perfect opportunity to use some C&F :D
 

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Does this chick even live near you? If so, message her back to get her #, then call her and set up a meeting. If not, why are you wasting your time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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