"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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random chick messaged me on facebook - how should I respond?

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I got a random message from a random girl:

"
oh my god!!!
you are so hot...
but does the personality match the dude we'll see...
write to me about your self!!!!
"
i took a look at her profile, and she seems pretty hot

how should I reply?

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i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i'm pretty sure this is one of those facebook spams.

how do you know?

1) take a good look at urself.
2) be honest
3) either a) laugh it off or b) message back

99% it's gonna be a) a joke or some spam sh1t.
 
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well...

i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When I used the actual HotOrNot site back in high school, it was basically a bunch of pre-fabricated dialogues from which you could pick and choose your sentences but not say anything yourself. So I'd take it with a grain of salt.
 
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I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
 
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noirsake said:
I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
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i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
 
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kidkurious said:
i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
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You played it well so far. Now is the perfect opportunity to use some C&F :D
 
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Does this chick even live near you? If so, message her back to get her #, then call her and set up a meeting. If not, why are you wasting your time?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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