"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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random chick messaged me on facebook - how should I respond?

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I got a random message from a random girl:

"
oh my god!!!
you are so hot...
but does the personality match the dude we'll see...
write to me about your self!!!!
"
i took a look at her profile, and she seems pretty hot

how should I reply?

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i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i'm pretty sure this is one of those facebook spams.

how do you know?

1) take a good look at urself.
2) be honest
3) either a) laugh it off or b) message back

99% it's gonna be a) a joke or some spam sh1t.
 
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well...

i got this message as result from the HOT or NOT application. I clicked yes on her, she clicked yes on me - match created, and then I received her message
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When I used the actual HotOrNot site back in high school, it was basically a bunch of pre-fabricated dialogues from which you could pick and choose your sentences but not say anything yourself. So I'd take it with a grain of salt.
 
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I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
 
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noirsake said:
I would start asking her stuff like "you're not some fat creepy guy eating potato chips are you?" tease her with that.
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i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
 
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kidkurious said:
i did as you said... and she replied...


ah!!! of course not!!!
i even changed my profile picture... you can check out my other pictures if you want...
wait ...are you a noesed- out 87 year old guy ,masturbating to my picture!!!?(lol)

how old are you?


yeah... so i guess this wasn't spam after all...

to top that off... she sent me a friend request... hahaha
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You played it well so far. Now is the perfect opportunity to use some C&F :D
 
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Does this chick even live near you? If so, message her back to get her #, then call her and set up a meeting. If not, why are you wasting your time?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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