Atom Smasher
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Okay, time to put this one to bed. Thread closed for business.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rage against the racism BETA machine
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ThunderMaverick
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Thread is still open lol
In any case zekko made a really good point about certain people hating on multiracial couples because of "muh superior race" instead of merits of the individual.
My GF is black and I'm half and half. I get dirty looks and rude comments from certain types of black men all the time. Not because they're black but because of the culture they choose to associate themselves with.
My mother was verbally assaulted by a white man, calling her a "****** lover" while she put a 3 year old me in her car.
Do you really think this hate comes from an altruistic view of protecting ones race? Or does it come from insecurity, self hate and rejection? There's a lot of reasons one wants to keep their race preserved. There's also reasons people want to date outside their race.
Complaining that someone is dating a black man because of statistics is ignorant. You have to look at these things on a case by case basis.
Look at it like this: if a white woman wants to date a black guy because he's a black thug, do you really want to "save" her? Shaming and being racist never changed minds. At the same time if a white woman wanted to date a black guy because they just so happened to be Compatable...
....do you need to stand in the way of that?
In any case zekko made a really good point about certain people hating on multiracial couples because of "muh superior race" instead of merits of the individual.
My GF is black and I'm half and half. I get dirty looks and rude comments from certain types of black men all the time. Not because they're black but because of the culture they choose to associate themselves with.
My mother was verbally assaulted by a white man, calling her a "****** lover" while she put a 3 year old me in her car.
Do you really think this hate comes from an altruistic view of protecting ones race? Or does it come from insecurity, self hate and rejection? There's a lot of reasons one wants to keep their race preserved. There's also reasons people want to date outside their race.
Complaining that someone is dating a black man because of statistics is ignorant. You have to look at these things on a case by case basis.
Look at it like this: if a white woman wants to date a black guy because he's a black thug, do you really want to "save" her? Shaming and being racist never changed minds. At the same time if a white woman wanted to date a black guy because they just so happened to be Compatable...
....do you need to stand in the way of that?
backbreaker
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I will just add that I never would take girls who "are looking to date outside their race" seriously. I never "looked" To date outside my race. it just happens.
Atom Smasher
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Once again, Mr. Danger, what was briefly yours is now mine...Danger said:
Closed for real!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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