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Okay, time to put this one to bed. Thread closed for business.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Thread is still open lol
In any case zekko made a really good point about certain people hating on multiracial couples because of "muh superior race" instead of merits of the individual.
My GF is black and I'm half and half. I get dirty looks and rude comments from certain types of black men all the time. Not because they're black but because of the culture they choose to associate themselves with.
My mother was verbally assaulted by a white man, calling her a "****** lover" while she put a 3 year old me in her car.
Do you really think this hate comes from an altruistic view of protecting ones race? Or does it come from insecurity, self hate and rejection? There's a lot of reasons one wants to keep their race preserved. There's also reasons people want to date outside their race.
Complaining that someone is dating a black man because of statistics is ignorant. You have to look at these things on a case by case basis.
Look at it like this: if a white woman wants to date a black guy because he's a black thug, do you really want to "save" her? Shaming and being racist never changed minds. At the same time if a white woman wanted to date a black guy because they just so happened to be Compatable...
....do you need to stand in the way of that?
In any case zekko made a really good point about certain people hating on multiracial couples because of "muh superior race" instead of merits of the individual.
My GF is black and I'm half and half. I get dirty looks and rude comments from certain types of black men all the time. Not because they're black but because of the culture they choose to associate themselves with.
My mother was verbally assaulted by a white man, calling her a "****** lover" while she put a 3 year old me in her car.
Do you really think this hate comes from an altruistic view of protecting ones race? Or does it come from insecurity, self hate and rejection? There's a lot of reasons one wants to keep their race preserved. There's also reasons people want to date outside their race.
Complaining that someone is dating a black man because of statistics is ignorant. You have to look at these things on a case by case basis.
Look at it like this: if a white woman wants to date a black guy because he's a black thug, do you really want to "save" her? Shaming and being racist never changed minds. At the same time if a white woman wanted to date a black guy because they just so happened to be Compatable...
....do you need to stand in the way of that?
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I will just add that I never would take girls who "are looking to date outside their race" seriously. I never "looked" To date outside my race. it just happens.
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Once again, Mr. Danger, what was briefly yours is now mine...Danger said:
Closed for real!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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