Atom Smasher
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Okay, time to put this one to bed. Thread closed for business.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rage against the racism BETA machine
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Thread is still open lol
In any case zekko made a really good point about certain people hating on multiracial couples because of "muh superior race" instead of merits of the individual.
My GF is black and I'm half and half. I get dirty looks and rude comments from certain types of black men all the time. Not because they're black but because of the culture they choose to associate themselves with.
My mother was verbally assaulted by a white man, calling her a "****** lover" while she put a 3 year old me in her car.
Do you really think this hate comes from an altruistic view of protecting ones race? Or does it come from insecurity, self hate and rejection? There's a lot of reasons one wants to keep their race preserved. There's also reasons people want to date outside their race.
Complaining that someone is dating a black man because of statistics is ignorant. You have to look at these things on a case by case basis.
Look at it like this: if a white woman wants to date a black guy because he's a black thug, do you really want to "save" her? Shaming and being racist never changed minds. At the same time if a white woman wanted to date a black guy because they just so happened to be Compatable...
....do you need to stand in the way of that?
In any case zekko made a really good point about certain people hating on multiracial couples because of "muh superior race" instead of merits of the individual.
My GF is black and I'm half and half. I get dirty looks and rude comments from certain types of black men all the time. Not because they're black but because of the culture they choose to associate themselves with.
My mother was verbally assaulted by a white man, calling her a "****** lover" while she put a 3 year old me in her car.
Do you really think this hate comes from an altruistic view of protecting ones race? Or does it come from insecurity, self hate and rejection? There's a lot of reasons one wants to keep their race preserved. There's also reasons people want to date outside their race.
Complaining that someone is dating a black man because of statistics is ignorant. You have to look at these things on a case by case basis.
Look at it like this: if a white woman wants to date a black guy because he's a black thug, do you really want to "save" her? Shaming and being racist never changed minds. At the same time if a white woman wanted to date a black guy because they just so happened to be Compatable...
....do you need to stand in the way of that?
backbreaker
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I will just add that I never would take girls who "are looking to date outside their race" seriously. I never "looked" To date outside my race. it just happens.
Atom Smasher
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Once again, Mr. Danger, what was briefly yours is now mine...Danger said:
Closed for real!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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