"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rAFC, need some pointers...

DJ In The Making

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I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJ In The Making said:
I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
gud you read so much. You need to put all that into practice now. Go , do whatever it takes. But approach the girl. You know dammit, you dont hate rejection as much as the girl you didn't go and talk to.

You want to talk to attractive girls. Good. Start talking to all of them , not just one of them.

Go ahead, go for convo. Post your FRs. Reading never did anything. You gotta make the move.

And oh yes , be social. That means talk to every girl, no matter their looks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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