"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

rAFC, need some pointers...

DJ In The Making

New Member
Joined
Sep 6, 2007
Messages
4
Reaction score
0
I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

nicenomore

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 5, 2006
Messages
259
Reaction score
0
Location
Chandigarh , India
DJ In The Making said:
I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
gud you read so much. You need to put all that into practice now. Go , do whatever it takes. But approach the girl. You know dammit, you dont hate rejection as much as the girl you didn't go and talk to.

You want to talk to attractive girls. Good. Start talking to all of them , not just one of them.

Go ahead, go for convo. Post your FRs. Reading never did anything. You gotta make the move.

And oh yes , be social. That means talk to every girl, no matter their looks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Carbine

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2007
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
Location
Hertfordshire
I am in the same sort of situation as you...
 
Top