"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rAFC, need some pointers...

DJ In The Making

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I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ In The Making said:
I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
gud you read so much. You need to put all that into practice now. Go , do whatever it takes. But approach the girl. You know dammit, you dont hate rejection as much as the girl you didn't go and talk to.

You want to talk to attractive girls. Good. Start talking to all of them , not just one of them.

Go ahead, go for convo. Post your FRs. Reading never did anything. You gotta make the move.

And oh yes , be social. That means talk to every girl, no matter their looks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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