"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rAFC, need some pointers...

DJ In The Making

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I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ In The Making said:
I am an rAFC... I am not new to the PUA thing... but I am still just an rAFC...

I know many "don't"s, but I know hardly any "do"s...

When I THINK girls like me, I never act upon it, and wait for them...

I never approach strange girls (as in ones I don't know lol)

Have crap conversational skills due to my lack of comfort around people I do not know well

I can't seem to be C+F without being offensive sounding when pressurised

I am clueless when I actually try to talk to a girl..



I guess I should tell you some of my CANs...


I CAN hold EC for as long as I like ESPECIALLY if I find them attractive...

I can be witty, funny and dominant when I don't feel under pressure or uncomfortable...



Hmm... where does a guy like me start? I know you will say "go out there and do it get experience" but I need more specific pointers please... I have already read many things including Mystery Method, Double Your Dating, Juggler's book, and Ross Jeffries old one. I just don't get it all...

Please give me examples of things I SHOULD do to get girls.

I am sitting just a couple of seats away from a very attractive girl in my class, but have not yet said a word to her... My goal of the year is to make her attracted to me using things I hope to learn from now up until a later date.

Lol try not to laugh as I am very new to doing this :(, and I hope you can relate to the situation I am in.
gud you read so much. You need to put all that into practice now. Go , do whatever it takes. But approach the girl. You know dammit, you dont hate rejection as much as the girl you didn't go and talk to.

You want to talk to attractive girls. Good. Start talking to all of them , not just one of them.

Go ahead, go for convo. Post your FRs. Reading never did anything. You gotta make the move.

And oh yes , be social. That means talk to every girl, no matter their looks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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