"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GS750

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How many times will you text/call a girl you're interested in before nexting her? I mean if you've tried one or two attempts with a chick you've been talking to pretty regularly and you're getting radio silence all of a sudden. And if you do decide to re-engage, what's your method? I've had this happen before, went completely no contact, sometimes they hit you up sometimes they dont. I'm interested in all opinions on this. Thanks
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For me it's two. You call her once, leave a vmail and she doesn't answer. You can do it one more time about a week later. After that move on.
 

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Renegade357 said:
For me it's two. You call her once, leave a vmail and she doesn't answer. You can do it one more time about a week later. After that move on.
I second this because if she ain't talking to you, she got somebody else. I give women ONE chance with me. F**k up once, you're dropped. And believe me, all women have options.
 

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Seems like two is standard
 

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If I have little sexual interest in her, or can easily take the pass...I Next her...that said....always keep chicks on your Rolodex (cell phone) permanently and periodically hit them up...6 months from now, a year, 2 years??? hit her up...she may be vulnerable, newly single, horny.....etc...

Got a buddy with chicks on his phone from 6-7 years ago...he occasionally hits them up and suddenly and magically he's getting a BJ in a parking lot....seriously....I've never known anyone get more BJs in a parking lot than this guy....lol


....by the way...he's also married!!!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah don't see the point in deleting the digits. Mind as well keep them in the phone for reasons you brought up.
 
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