"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many times will you text/call a girl you're interested in before nexting her? I mean if you've tried one or two attempts with a chick you've been talking to pretty regularly and you're getting radio silence all of a sudden. And if you do decide to re-engage, what's your method? I've had this happen before, went completely no contact, sometimes they hit you up sometimes they dont. I'm interested in all opinions on this. Thanks
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For me it's two. You call her once, leave a vmail and she doesn't answer. You can do it one more time about a week later. After that move on.
 

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Renegade357 said:
For me it's two. You call her once, leave a vmail and she doesn't answer. You can do it one more time about a week later. After that move on.
I second this because if she ain't talking to you, she got somebody else. I give women ONE chance with me. F**k up once, you're dropped. And believe me, all women have options.
 

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Seems like two is standard
 

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If I have little sexual interest in her, or can easily take the pass...I Next her...that said....always keep chicks on your Rolodex (cell phone) permanently and periodically hit them up...6 months from now, a year, 2 years??? hit her up...she may be vulnerable, newly single, horny.....etc...

Got a buddy with chicks on his phone from 6-7 years ago...he occasionally hits them up and suddenly and magically he's getting a BJ in a parking lot....seriously....I've never known anyone get more BJs in a parking lot than this guy....lol


....by the way...he's also married!!!!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah don't see the point in deleting the digits. Mind as well keep them in the phone for reasons you brought up.
 
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