Jayer said:
Why shouldn't he have made it public? This girl was seen in "public" making out with her so called guy friend. Why didn't she cheat privately? Do you see the point? There is no set ettiquite for cheating just like there isn't for the consequences of it.
I feel that without breaking the law he really could have handled the situation any way he wanted to. I happen to think the way he did was both innovative and exclamatory. Like I said I think this girl learned a hard lesson and will think about 5 times before she cheats again on someone.
I have absolutely no pity for this woman what so ever. Yes some guys could have been cool about it and made the break up non-chalant.... but when you spend 3 years (living together none the less) with someone and she cheats on you as you were planning a proposal.... well the gloves are off in my opinion
A classless woman doesn't deserve a classy break up.
You never know how you will react until it is you this sort of thing is happening to. I concur with you all gloves are off.
Besides, what if he spent a ton of loot on her ring. There are some guys that will drop 10k on that princess. He could have taken out a second mortgage on his castle. Not to mention she ripped his heart out and was cheating on my man in public and one of his boys saw it!!! That alone could be rough on the ego!
Trader, I believe mentioned James Bond. Bond is Fleming's fictional character and this is real life. Sometimes, when you wrestle with a pig, you just get messy, but in this case he got messy but loved the mess. I am not saying do it because it is fun, but he did what he felt necessary.
Sure if this Chris guy was not set on spending his life with a "soul mate", or so he thought, he would of and probably would have just privately next her. But to simply just let her walk away in private would suggest the man has no emotions. Men have emotions and as Jayer suggested, he broke no laws.
Rollo, this is a hot topic man and would have loved to see how the poll turned out. How can you bring such a great discussion up and not want to see what we think?
Still I like this discussion as the mature section gets stale at times.