"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Racist cops hit drunk guy with a baton......

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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After he shouts 'fvck you n*gger!' and shoves the black cop, it's hard to feel sorry for the kid. That behavior will get you beat up anywhere in the world. The force used might have been excessive, but it wasn't completely undeserved.
 

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United States had abolished slavery what, like 20 years ago? Still plenty of racism. And all you have is two races lol, whites and ******s.


In Russia there are 150+something races, including blacks from Africa and Cuba, and from United States. We don't have racism. The most we have is some Siberian kid that never seen ******s say oh look at that ******, and he does not mean to racially put down anyone, he just never seen a live ******.


That is that.


If you are drunk in Russia, cops (we have two kinds, traffic and the other) talk you into coming with them. You can yell at them, call them names, they won't use batons on you, or taze your ass, or shoot you. They can jump you if you put your hands on them thought. Youtube is full of these vids.


So I say fvck America, the idiot's dream and the poor man's birth place.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt said:
After he shouts 'fvck you n*gger!' and shoves the black cop, it's hard to feel sorry for the kid. That behavior will get you beat up anywhere in the world. The force used might have been excessive, but it wasn't completely undeserved.
Disagree. You are sort of portraying the 'hate whitey' attitude here. The cops should let those comments go in one ear and out the other. ABSOLUTELY NO WAY a cop should retaliate for something that comes out of a guy's mouth like that. I think you're dead wrong.

If anything, if the cop hit him because he called him a n*gger, then that should almost be a crime committed by the cop. You can't do that crap. If a black called a white cope a honky, that means the white cop can go Rodney King on his arse?

I didn't think so.
 

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yelling is one thing, battery (laying even one FINGER on another person) is another thing, entirely. Verbal assault is a misdemeanor, battery is a felony.Commit felony battery on a cop, buster, you can EXPECT violent consequences. Drunks should just EXPECT to get their heads beaten in. if you dont like it, don't drink, especially not in public.
 

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The cops should let those comments go in one ear and out the other. ABSOLUTELY NO WAY a cop should retaliate for something that comes out of a guy's mouth like that.

I think you are correct in regard to the letter of the law as it relates to the speech itself. It's the shove, scream, and lunge move that justifies the use of at least some level of force. The club to the back of the head was likely excessive, though. They should have just cuffed and arrested him without using the club.

His poor choice of words relates more to the unwritten human element of the law. A jury in Mississippi is going to be about 50% elderly black people who still remember the civil rights era when white cops treated them that way. Good luck getting that jury to convict.
 

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No sympathy for the kid. Yeah the cop should be professional, mature, and look past the racist remark...but once you shove a cop whos already pissed about being insulted...be prepared for him to lose his restraint, and then proceed to beat your ass.

Stupid kid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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