"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Racist cops hit drunk guy with a baton......

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After he shouts 'fvck you n*gger!' and shoves the black cop, it's hard to feel sorry for the kid. That behavior will get you beat up anywhere in the world. The force used might have been excessive, but it wasn't completely undeserved.
 

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United States had abolished slavery what, like 20 years ago? Still plenty of racism. And all you have is two races lol, whites and ******s.


In Russia there are 150+something races, including blacks from Africa and Cuba, and from United States. We don't have racism. The most we have is some Siberian kid that never seen ******s say oh look at that ******, and he does not mean to racially put down anyone, he just never seen a live ******.


That is that.


If you are drunk in Russia, cops (we have two kinds, traffic and the other) talk you into coming with them. You can yell at them, call them names, they won't use batons on you, or taze your ass, or shoot you. They can jump you if you put your hands on them thought. Youtube is full of these vids.


So I say fvck America, the idiot's dream and the poor man's birth place.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt said:
After he shouts 'fvck you n*gger!' and shoves the black cop, it's hard to feel sorry for the kid. That behavior will get you beat up anywhere in the world. The force used might have been excessive, but it wasn't completely undeserved.
Disagree. You are sort of portraying the 'hate whitey' attitude here. The cops should let those comments go in one ear and out the other. ABSOLUTELY NO WAY a cop should retaliate for something that comes out of a guy's mouth like that. I think you're dead wrong.

If anything, if the cop hit him because he called him a n*gger, then that should almost be a crime committed by the cop. You can't do that crap. If a black called a white cope a honky, that means the white cop can go Rodney King on his arse?

I didn't think so.
 

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yelling is one thing, battery (laying even one FINGER on another person) is another thing, entirely. Verbal assault is a misdemeanor, battery is a felony.Commit felony battery on a cop, buster, you can EXPECT violent consequences. Drunks should just EXPECT to get their heads beaten in. if you dont like it, don't drink, especially not in public.
 

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The cops should let those comments go in one ear and out the other. ABSOLUTELY NO WAY a cop should retaliate for something that comes out of a guy's mouth like that.

I think you are correct in regard to the letter of the law as it relates to the speech itself. It's the shove, scream, and lunge move that justifies the use of at least some level of force. The club to the back of the head was likely excessive, though. They should have just cuffed and arrested him without using the club.

His poor choice of words relates more to the unwritten human element of the law. A jury in Mississippi is going to be about 50% elderly black people who still remember the civil rights era when white cops treated them that way. Good luck getting that jury to convict.
 

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No sympathy for the kid. Yeah the cop should be professional, mature, and look past the racist remark...but once you shove a cop whos already pissed about being insulted...be prepared for him to lose his restraint, and then proceed to beat your ass.

Stupid kid.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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