"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know if anyone wants to have a dicussion on racism on a don juan forum, but if so, let's start it in here.

I've heard people say that a lot of the "misogynistic" attitudes of the "don juan attitude" can be applied to races and account for racism, which most would agree is bad. However, the difference is that there is a biological, thus real, difference between males and females. There is no biological, this no real, difference between races of humans.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Somebody better close this before it gets out of hand.... :down:
 
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Oh dear lord.

STOP.

POSTING.

CRAP.

PEOPLE.

Go outside! It's summer!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by FBA808
I don't know if anyone wants to have a dicussion on racism on a don juan forum, but if so, let's start it in here.
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How about you read the forum rules first. :rolleyes:

If you want a rake, go to the hardware store. If you want a taco, go to Taco Bell. If you want to discuss racism, go somewhere else:

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=racism+forum
 
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