"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't know if anyone wants to have a dicussion on racism on a don juan forum, but if so, let's start it in here.

I've heard people say that a lot of the "misogynistic" attitudes of the "don juan attitude" can be applied to races and account for racism, which most would agree is bad. However, the difference is that there is a biological, thus real, difference between males and females. There is no biological, this no real, difference between races of humans.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Somebody better close this before it gets out of hand.... :down:
 
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Oh dear lord.

STOP.

POSTING.

CRAP.

PEOPLE.

Go outside! It's summer!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by FBA808
I don't know if anyone wants to have a dicussion on racism on a don juan forum, but if so, let's start it in here.
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How about you read the forum rules first. :rolleyes:

If you want a rake, go to the hardware store. If you want a taco, go to Taco Bell. If you want to discuss racism, go somewhere else:

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=racism+forum
 
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