"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't know if anyone wants to have a dicussion on racism on a don juan forum, but if so, let's start it in here.

I've heard people say that a lot of the "misogynistic" attitudes of the "don juan attitude" can be applied to races and account for racism, which most would agree is bad. However, the difference is that there is a biological, thus real, difference between males and females. There is no biological, this no real, difference between races of humans.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Somebody better close this before it gets out of hand.... :down:
 

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Oh dear lord.

STOP.

POSTING.

CRAP.

PEOPLE.

Go outside! It's summer!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by FBA808
I don't know if anyone wants to have a dicussion on racism on a don juan forum, but if so, let's start it in here.
How about you read the forum rules first. :rolleyes:

If you want a rake, go to the hardware store. If you want a taco, go to Taco Bell. If you want to discuss racism, go somewhere else:

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=racism+forum
 
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