"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have often wondered alot about this.

I come from Britain, its very muli culturl and in the DJ field it can be an interesting challenge to come across a woman who has a different cultural background.

Yes, somebody who is not native to our country but lives here will have lived in a different society for some or most of their lives and this can affect the person they are.

Differences in socities

I have studied Sociology before and have learned some very interesting things.

In Spain people are more open kinaestetically for example.

Some Latino women have been proven to hold eye contact for 2 - 3 seconds longer than other cultures.

This CAN lead to certain missinterpretations on our part.
By "our part" i mean Britons, heck, even Americans as our cultures have some similarities.

I just wanted to embolden this idea and i'm sure some of you will know much more about this than i do.

I only ask because unless you are very very poor you will have been to another country and possibly DJ'ed there.

So the question i pose is

What do you know about other customs in regards to the DJ'ing?

with regards Ianlove
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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unless you are very very poor you will have been to another country and possibly DJ'ed there.
:rolleyes: guess I'm poor then...
 

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I've learned the most when visiting Italy. The culture screams of male machismo and female femininity. There little if any pretense or BS when either sex spots an interesting pray.

Three second rule; it's a given. Eye contact is a must. Kino goes without question. Charisma is the lifeblood of every man there. You'd think that there are Alphas stalking the streets and you're right, it makes you pick up your game.

The cool thing is that they recognize men of similar caliber and it is fvcking magic when sarging in a pack of competent DJs. This may not be quite the answer to the question posed; but I have to say that unless your get out of your own back yard, you'll never understand the ways of the world.
 

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nice answer man

I was just curious about other places.

Don't worry Blatant Truth, you can always go to wales lol
Depending on your location though:

Wales- England
canada- USA lol
 

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I don't think it matters. Unless you're a diplomat or business traveller, you can just act like yourself (assuming its not your native culture to be an a$$hole), and the girls of that country will know you're a foreigner anyway.

Theres no point learning about all 300 cultures of the world just so you can get laid easier.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
I don't think it matters. Unless you're a diplomat or business traveller, you can just act like yourself (assuming its not your native culture to be an a$$hole), and the girls of that country will know you're a foreigner anyway.

Theres no point learning about all 300 cultures of the world just so you can get laid easier.
Trust me, it's different across the pond. In the states, a man elicits his value by what he can produce. A man that is a good provider tops many women's lists over here.

On the other hand, outside the United States it's more about the man himself; his intrinsic value. Any guy can make a ton of money and have a kick @ss car or a killer flat; it's the unique charisma of the guy that lures them.

D@mn, I need to get back over there...
 

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i wasn't on about learning 300 whatever.

I was just bringing up an interesting note
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Trust me, it's different across the pond. In the states, a man elicits his value by what he can produce. A man that is a good provider tops many women's lists over here.

On the other hand, outside the United States it's more about the man himself; his intrinsic value. Any guy can make a ton of money and have a kick @ss car or a killer flat; it's the unique charisma of the guy that lures them.
Where's "there"? I actually found in a lot of countries (especially poorer ones) a man's wealth is far more important than anything else, simply because the women are too poor to have the luxury of liking a man's "personality". Unless you're referring to ultra-rich countries like Switzerland and France.
 

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I went on a little European vacation last christmas and boy was I in for a shock.

I went to germany, Paris and the Chech Republic..


Nothing like it is over here.

First of all, it's alot more laid back across the pond. time really isn't as important as it is over here. things start later, finish earlier...

The food is soo much better

The women, act like WOMEN. going to euprope did more for my DJ skills than anything else I have ever done, ,becasue you see how it's supposed to be, and when you act like it's supposed to over here, and the girl is acting like a "princess", you know that shes the one that ****ed up, not you.

i was in paris for New Years, nothing like it... Cold as ****, but nothing like it.
 

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Originally posted by ianlove
I have often wondered alot about this.

I come from Britain, its very muli culturl and in the DJ field it can be an interesting challenge to come across a woman who has a different cultural background.

Yes, somebody who is not native to our country but lives here will have lived in a different society for some or most of their lives and this can affect the person they are.

Differences in socities

I have studied Sociology before and have learned some very interesting things.

In Spain people are more open kinaestetically for example.

Some Latino women have been proven to hold eye contact for 2 - 3 seconds longer than other cultures.

This CAN lead to certain missinterpretations on our part.
By "our part" i mean Britons, heck, even Americans as our cultures have some similarities.

I just wanted to embolden this idea and i'm sure some of you will know much more about this than i do.

I only ask because unless you are very very poor you will have been to another country and possibly DJ'ed there.

So the question i pose is

What do you know about other customs in regards to the DJ'ing?

with regards Ianlove
Again, like I just posted in some other guy's post-it doesnt matter! If you like it try it! For Christ's Sake man!


"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Where's "there"? I actually found in a lot of countries (especially poorer ones) a man's wealth is far more important than anything else, simply because the women are too poor to have the luxury of liking a man's "personality". Unless you're referring to ultra-rich countries like Switzerland and France.
Don't forget Italy... ;)
 

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wo wo wo Freeman

I apologise dude for being TOTALLY UNAWARE of the fact you posted "it doesn't matter" somewhere else.

"Who's leg do you have to hump to get a dry martini around her anyways?"
- Brian, Famil Guy
 

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In sex, i often think american women see too many porn flicks and think that having sex should be like a porn movie, me being Mexican i am always told by american woman that i am very "passionate", simply because i like to touch, massage, hold, and kiss a woman all over during sex, for me its natural, but it seems americans don't do that as much as we do.

Off course, women love a passionate man in bed.
 

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i have an equal opputunity dicc. i dont dicriminate unless shes fat
 

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Originally posted by salsipuedes
In sex, i often think american women see too many porn flicks and think that having sex should be like a porn movie, me being Mexican i am always told by american woman that i am very "passionate", simply because i like to touch, massage, hold, and kiss a woman all over during sex, for me its natural, but it seems americans don't do that as much as we do.

Off course, women love a passionate man in bed.
It's not the porn (few watch it); it's the lack of good sex and/or limiting personal hang ups about sex. A woman with self confidence and is truly passionate about sex (without the hangups) is truly a wonderful sight to behold (especially from behind :p)!

"Smack it up, flip it, rub it down...." - B.B.V.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think this is really perception. I think when it comes down to it, regardless of where you are women still respond to the proper manly behaviors.

Yes, AFCs with external stuture do better in some cultures, but when it comes down to making her wet, this does not vary much.
 

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Originally posted by ianlove
I have often wondered alot about this.

I have studied Sociology before and have learned some very interesting things.

In Spain people are more open kinaestetically for example.

Some Latino women have been proven to hold eye contact for 2 - 3 seconds longer than other cultures.

This CAN lead to certain missinterpretations on our part.
By "our part" i mean Britons, heck, even Americans as our cultures have some similarities.

I just wanted to embolden this idea and i'm sure some of you will know much more about this than i do.

I only ask because unless you are very very poor you will have been to another country and possibly DJ'ed there.

So the question i pose is

What do you know about other customs in regards to the DJ'ing?

with regards Ianlove
In Spain people are more open kinaestetically for example.

What do you mean whith that "kinaestetically"... do you mean kino is useless in mediterranean countries?? please explain it...
 
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