Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yep, he definitely was a great guy. Met him (and got his autograph) at two cons in the 80s and you can tell that he's one of the few cast members who truly enjoys meeting the fans at cons.Originally posted by Paradox
Wow. Thanks for posting that. I heard he was a really great guy. He lived a full life. He was 85 when he passed.
I have to add that alot of NASA Engineers say that they got into engineering because of him/his TV character.
waw, I have trouble admiting that I even watch Start Treck, And here he goes and tells us he goes to conventions. Do you dress up too?Originally posted by Yotsuya-san
Met him (and got his autograph) at two cons in the 80s and you can tell that he's one of the few cast members who truly
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
why do you have trouble admitting you like star trek? Captain Kirk is one of my heroes. Always in control of his situation taking care of his crew.Originally posted by spider_007
waw, I have trouble admiting that I even watch Start Treck, And here he goes and tells us he goes to conventions. Do you dress up too?