She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yep.Never heard of him.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Never heard of this snoozer. Can't say words like "courage" and "pride" honestly even come to mind when I hear about another phaggot coming out. In this overly feminized climate where traditional masculinity is shamed, who gives a sh!t?cola said:I think hes very courages, and im proud of him and wish him the best, opinions and thoughts?
I don't think anyone wants to be gay. People don't like to be riddiculed if they can prevent it so it has to be more to it then "chose to be gay". I don't think they have a choice.( . )( . ) said:Never heard of this snoozer. Can't say words like "courage" and "pride" honestly even come to mind when I hear about another phaggot coming out. In this overly feminized climate where traditional masculinity is shamed, who gives a sh!t?
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Courage and pride.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lol..backseatjuan said:Gay you can be inside your house, if you choose to be publically Gay, you're mentally ill and you're comitting a crime against children by displaying gay affection in public. In Russia there is a whole law that prohibits gay in public. That fag in ops post, whatever his name is, would get arrested in Russia and become a happy homo inside Russian prison system. He'd get a butterfly nakolochka on his butt and would be sleeping near prison cell bathroom, get his ass kicked for looking wrong on other men, and after a while he'd want to be straight. No nature involved.
Death to homos, femenists, and all other types of pervarts.
If you try to defend a homo you're a homo yourself and should be linched.
Don't be giving me that liberal emotional side talk either. I might suggest a reevaluation in what you think is praiseworthy and deserves feelings of pride. I can almost guarantee if you look a bit harder you'll see another pillow biter coming out is not all that great and courageous.cola said:I don't think anyone wants to be gay. People don't like to be riddiculed if they can prevent it so it has to be more to it then "chose to be gay". I don't think they have a choice.
You sir did not choose your race right? Would I be justified in calling you names over your race when you didnt pick it?
As far a society being feminine, men like you with a need to prove your masculinity by putting others down, are the definition of feminism.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bukowski_merit said:From what i can find he's not a complete f@g. He came out that his first love was with a man. But he does like women. So, I guess he's bi (some articles mention this; some don't).