"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
R&B singer Frank Ocean comes out as gay, thoughts?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nexus Polaris
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Never heard of this snoozer. Can't say words like "courage" and "pride" honestly even come to mind when I hear about another phaggot coming out. In this overly feminized climate where traditional masculinity is shamed, who gives a sh!t?cola said:
http://www.defence.gov.au/media/download/2007/oct/20071029a/20071028adf8252964_013_lo.jpg
Courage and pride.
I don't think anyone wants to be gay. People don't like to be riddiculed if they can prevent it so it has to be more to it then "chose to be gay". I don't think they have a choice.( . )( . ) said:
You sir did not choose your race right? Would I be justified in calling you names over your race when you didnt pick it?
As far a society being feminine, men like you with a need to prove your masculinity by putting others down, are the definition of feminism.
I think he is one of the best lyricists/writers/artists in the genre right now, and it will really be a shame if his music takes a hit because of this.
backseatjuan
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Death to homos, femenists, and all other types of pervarts.
If you try to defend a homo you're a homo yourself and should be linched.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backbreaker
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No Bonnie
Swim Good
Novacane - This was his first mainstream single
Thinking About You - Most recent radio single
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Don't be giving me that liberal emotional side talk either. I might suggest a reevaluation in what you think is praiseworthy and deserves feelings of pride. I can almost guarantee if you look a bit harder you'll see another pillow biter coming out is not all that great and courageous.cola said:
It's all about priorities my confused young friend.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
bukowski_merit
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People were talking about this today at lunch. So i went and read a few things.
From what i can find he's not a complete f@g. He came out that his first love was with a man. But he does like women. So, I guess he's bi (some articles mention this; some don't).
Not that that makes a huge difference. But, it at least makes it so his music about women isn't a complete facade (Ricky Martin).
Maximus Rex
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bukowski_merit said:
This is just more promotion of the gay agenda. Slowly but surely homos are dropping these tibits to acclimate American society to this bullsh*t. To make matters worse dude is bi AIDS spreader.
backbreaker
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the thing about frank ocean is that he has talent that transcends perceptions. **** even if they don't buy his music he can go back to ghost writing and he's one of the best in the business at that.