"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SayWhat

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Hi guys

Since february till about the end of september I've been drinking 2-3 beers a day. During the weekends it was even more when I was out with friends. Even though this was not extreme and I did this because I was emotionally a bit down, I felt this was not a good lifestyle. My work or gym schedule didn't suffer, but still.

Since october I drastically reduced my alcohol intake, I still drink from time to time (during weekends or on social occassions, but not at home anymore).

What a difference! I feel so much better during the day, I'm more talkative, more energy,... And even though those 2-3 drinks a day didn't give me a hangover the next day, completely cutting off has made such a difference. The day following the days where I still drink, I notice it. I'm more down, less prone to talk to people,...

I only hope this is not a placebo effect or some effect that wears off after a few weeks.

The next step is completely stop drinking, this will be very difficult as I still enjoy a good beer on a hot day or on certain occassions. But my advice, if you are in the same situation as I was, drastically reduce your alcohol intake.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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most people don't undersrand 'moderation'...

it's either 1. ban the stuff

or 2. drink till you're blind....

both positions are dumb.
 

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Best of luck. I know I couldn't do it. Most of the chicks I'm attracted to and generally get are drinkers who I meet at paces that involve drinking.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My situation is very similar to yours and I can tell you, I feel immensely better since I cut back. I am getting to the point now wehre I don't even feel like getting a drink during social occasions. Drinking tends to shadow a low self-esteem, and give people that false confidence. I would rather drink water or tea now.

Oddly enough, what also helped is attracting women who don't drink much. My main girl now drinks maybe one drink one day a week, my exgf would drink the same or less. A couple of my plates from earlier this year were the same. Funny enough, my exwife still drinks quite a bit...
 

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My situation is very similar to yours and I can tell you, I feel immensely better since I cut back. I am getting to the point now wehre I don't even feel like getting a drink during social occasions. Drinking tends to shadow a low self-esteem, and give people that false confidence. I would rather drink water or tea now.

Oddly enough, what also helped is attracting women who don't drink much. My main girl now drinks maybe one drink one day a week, my exgf would drink the same or less. A couple of my plates from earlier this year were the same. Funny enough, my exwife still drinks quite a bit...
I don’t think I’ll ever completely cut back even though I told so in the first post, but after thinking about it... I also want girls who don’t mind a drink.

The few girlfriends I had also liked a drink and there is something to getting drunk together. The sex than was also more uninhibited and animalistic. Which is not bad at all.

But yeah getting so drunk that you’ll spend the next day completely hungover, hell no.
 

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Hi guys

Since february till about the end of september I've been drinking 2-3 beers a day. During the weekends it was even more when I was out with friends. Even though this was not extreme and I did this because I was emotionally a bit down, I felt this was not a good lifestyle. My work or gym schedule didn't suffer, but still.

Since october I drastically reduced my alcohol intake, I still drink from time to time (during weekends or on social occassions, but not at home anymore).

What a difference! I feel so much better during the day, I'm more talkative, more energy,... And even though those 2-3 drinks a day didn't give me a hangover the next day, completely cutting off has made such a difference. The day following the days where I still drink, I notice it. I'm more down, less prone to talk to people,...

I only hope this is not a placebo effect or some effect that wears off after a few weeks.

The next step is completely stop drinking, this will be very difficult as I still enjoy a good beer on a hot day or on certain occassions. But my advice, if you are in the same situation as I was, drastically reduce your alcohol intake.
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