It means that you don't come across as very assertive. It seems like you're in the "anti dump" mode and are making pre-emptive strikes in case she rejects or flakes....it seems like your actions are a buffer to rejection.
If you give them a specific time and place and they are not available to can counter offer with a specific time and place. I mean what's the point in someone saying to you let's go for a drink sometime. It never happens. When is sometime? before armagedeon?
Anxious to set in minor details?????? If I want to meet up with someone, the time, place and hour are minor details??? What, our energy will
just find each other?
Again, this sounds so vague and is if you have no plans the weekend. In fact it sounds very Corey Wayne. You're leaving it in her hands and she senses the vagueness from you. She thinks you're unsure and probably thinks you have zero interest level. This gives the impression that you're available all weekend. "you tell me when you're free babe, and I'll come running"
Sometimes the woman is a mirror.
