"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quick texting question

juan95

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First of all: I know, I know. "texting kills your game". "texting is for AFCs/losers/girls".
I use it sparingly and almost always escalate.
But in this situation, I was texting a girl about 48 hours ago. I just realized that I left her hanging in a rather flirtatious exchange.
Should I start a new conversation, or keep moving with the old one as if I just got the message?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NorwegianDJ

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Dude don't believe that texting bs. It was written years ago by another generation. Learn how to use text instead. I'm using my phone right now; we're in a new era.
If you are to start a new one, make a statement. Don't do it unless it aids your progress with this chick.
 

P­ornography

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Look.

Texting is just another medium for success. For the people who knock it down and call it all the things you just did, it's their lost. Fact is, women are so absorbed into their phones and Facebook these days, you're missing out to not be keeping up.

Go to collegeflirt.net. There's some badass advice there for text flirting, instant message flirt. Whatever. Just be good with words; as in, good with double entendres and innuendos.

Don't be too serious either! It's not face to face so stuff with be taken literally, by the same token too much punctuation turns you into a flaming she-male.


juan95 said:
First of all: I know, I know. "texting kills your game". "texting is for AFCs/losers/girls".
I use it sparingly and almost always escalate.
But in this situation, I was texting a girl about 48 hours ago. I just realized that I left her hanging in a rather flirtatious exchange.
Should I start a new conversation, or keep moving with the old one as if I just got the message?
You need to kill this mindset you have about texting. The DJ Bible needs to be updated, and to be honest, it sucks in regards to high-school game. (in regards to building yourself up as a man, it still kickass though =D)

About your post, it's usually always good to let the girl have the last word. It's good to "leave her hanging" and on a good note also. Obviously, if you guys are texting about reverse cowgirl sex or something, then you spring her with "sorry gtg I can't oversleep tomorrow" you leave her yearning for more.


Which is usually always good.

Probably best to start a conversation but really sh*t like this is trivial. When you get good at it you'll never worry about stupid crap like texting within 48 hours, having the last word, etc.
 

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Fact is, women are so absorbed into their phones and Facebook these days, you're missing out to not be keeping up.
This is why this thread is "losing."

1) Why I am I letting the chick dictate the circumstances of which we're communicating?

2) How am I suppose to seperate myself from the 5 other people she's texting in addition to me?

3) Why do you text junkies have an adversion to actual phone conversations?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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