"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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juan95

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First of all: I know, I know. "texting kills your game". "texting is for AFCs/losers/girls".
I use it sparingly and almost always escalate.
But in this situation, I was texting a girl about 48 hours ago. I just realized that I left her hanging in a rather flirtatious exchange.
Should I start a new conversation, or keep moving with the old one as if I just got the message?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dude don't believe that texting bs. It was written years ago by another generation. Learn how to use text instead. I'm using my phone right now; we're in a new era.
If you are to start a new one, make a statement. Don't do it unless it aids your progress with this chick.
 

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Look.

Texting is just another medium for success. For the people who knock it down and call it all the things you just did, it's their lost. Fact is, women are so absorbed into their phones and Facebook these days, you're missing out to not be keeping up.

Go to collegeflirt.net. There's some badass advice there for text flirting, instant message flirt. Whatever. Just be good with words; as in, good with double entendres and innuendos.

Don't be too serious either! It's not face to face so stuff with be taken literally, by the same token too much punctuation turns you into a flaming she-male.


juan95 said:
First of all: I know, I know. "texting kills your game". "texting is for AFCs/losers/girls".
I use it sparingly and almost always escalate.
But in this situation, I was texting a girl about 48 hours ago. I just realized that I left her hanging in a rather flirtatious exchange.
Should I start a new conversation, or keep moving with the old one as if I just got the message?
You need to kill this mindset you have about texting. The DJ Bible needs to be updated, and to be honest, it sucks in regards to high-school game. (in regards to building yourself up as a man, it still kickass though =D)

About your post, it's usually always good to let the girl have the last word. It's good to "leave her hanging" and on a good note also. Obviously, if you guys are texting about reverse cowgirl sex or something, then you spring her with "sorry gtg I can't oversleep tomorrow" you leave her yearning for more.


Which is usually always good.

Probably best to start a conversation but really sh*t like this is trivial. When you get good at it you'll never worry about stupid crap like texting within 48 hours, having the last word, etc.
 

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Fact is, women are so absorbed into their phones and Facebook these days, you're missing out to not be keeping up.
This is why this thread is "losing."

1) Why I am I letting the chick dictate the circumstances of which we're communicating?

2) How am I suppose to seperate myself from the 5 other people she's texting in addition to me?

3) Why do you text junkies have an adversion to actual phone conversations?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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