"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Quick texting question

juan95

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First of all: I know, I know. "texting kills your game". "texting is for AFCs/losers/girls".
I use it sparingly and almost always escalate.
But in this situation, I was texting a girl about 48 hours ago. I just realized that I left her hanging in a rather flirtatious exchange.
Should I start a new conversation, or keep moving with the old one as if I just got the message?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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Dude don't believe that texting bs. It was written years ago by another generation. Learn how to use text instead. I'm using my phone right now; we're in a new era.
If you are to start a new one, make a statement. Don't do it unless it aids your progress with this chick.
 

P­ornography

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Look.

Texting is just another medium for success. For the people who knock it down and call it all the things you just did, it's their lost. Fact is, women are so absorbed into their phones and Facebook these days, you're missing out to not be keeping up.

Go to collegeflirt.net. There's some badass advice there for text flirting, instant message flirt. Whatever. Just be good with words; as in, good with double entendres and innuendos.

Don't be too serious either! It's not face to face so stuff with be taken literally, by the same token too much punctuation turns you into a flaming she-male.


juan95 said:
First of all: I know, I know. "texting kills your game". "texting is for AFCs/losers/girls".
I use it sparingly and almost always escalate.
But in this situation, I was texting a girl about 48 hours ago. I just realized that I left her hanging in a rather flirtatious exchange.
Should I start a new conversation, or keep moving with the old one as if I just got the message?
You need to kill this mindset you have about texting. The DJ Bible needs to be updated, and to be honest, it sucks in regards to high-school game. (in regards to building yourself up as a man, it still kickass though =D)

About your post, it's usually always good to let the girl have the last word. It's good to "leave her hanging" and on a good note also. Obviously, if you guys are texting about reverse cowgirl sex or something, then you spring her with "sorry gtg I can't oversleep tomorrow" you leave her yearning for more.


Which is usually always good.

Probably best to start a conversation but really sh*t like this is trivial. When you get good at it you'll never worry about stupid crap like texting within 48 hours, having the last word, etc.
 

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P­ornography said:
Fact is, women are so absorbed into their phones and Facebook these days, you're missing out to not be keeping up.
This is why this thread is "losing."

1) Why I am I letting the chick dictate the circumstances of which we're communicating?

2) How am I suppose to seperate myself from the 5 other people she's texting in addition to me?

3) Why do you text junkies have an adversion to actual phone conversations?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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