"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quick reply on girl commenting pic on facebook

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Was on facebook and this girl commented on my pic saying 'you look cute here", should I compliment bac saying "thanx you don't look bad yourself, I dont know this girl but she look lyk shes a 7.5 to me. What you guys think?

People are saying not cause she didn't open a conversation, all she did was leave a simple compliment but can at least jus leave a compliment on her pic as well. If a unknown girl is complimenting a pic of me at least i should respond back and take advange of the move she did...I guess?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
 
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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
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Thats actually really good thanx man, cause others on a different forum said responding will jus make it awkward...but **** them ill follow dat advice
 
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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
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send it to her, and she wrote back "agreed haha", should i do anything or wat
 
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Find out where she stay. If it's nearby ask her out sometime. If she's really far away there's no point in doing anything really unless you want to keep getting to know her and perhaps you two can meet up at another time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol yup you see those comments on the profiles of hot girls. "wow looking gorgeous" - "thankss lol! <3"
 
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