"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick reply on girl commenting pic on facebook

Jamal

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Was on facebook and this girl commented on my pic saying 'you look cute here", should I compliment bac saying "thanx you don't look bad yourself, I dont know this girl but she look lyk shes a 7.5 to me. What you guys think?

People are saying not cause she didn't open a conversation, all she did was leave a simple compliment but can at least jus leave a compliment on her pic as well. If a unknown girl is complimenting a pic of me at least i should respond back and take advange of the move she did...I guess?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
 

Jamal

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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
Thats actually really good thanx man, cause others on a different forum said responding will jus make it awkward...but **** them ill follow dat advice
 

Jamal

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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
send it to her, and she wrote back "agreed haha", should i do anything or wat
 

ZhaoYun

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Find out where she stay. If it's nearby ask her out sometime. If she's really far away there's no point in doing anything really unless you want to keep getting to know her and perhaps you two can meet up at another time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MisterMcGee

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lol yup you see those comments on the profiles of hot girls. "wow looking gorgeous" - "thankss lol! <3"
 
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