"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick reply on girl commenting pic on facebook

Jamal

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Was on facebook and this girl commented on my pic saying 'you look cute here", should I compliment bac saying "thanx you don't look bad yourself, I dont know this girl but she look lyk shes a 7.5 to me. What you guys think?

People are saying not cause she didn't open a conversation, all she did was leave a simple compliment but can at least jus leave a compliment on her pic as well. If a unknown girl is complimenting a pic of me at least i should respond back and take advange of the move she did...I guess?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
 

Jamal

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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
Thats actually really good thanx man, cause others on a different forum said responding will jus make it awkward...but **** them ill follow dat advice
 

Jamal

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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
send it to her, and she wrote back "agreed haha", should i do anything or wat
 

ZhaoYun

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Find out where she stay. If it's nearby ask her out sometime. If she's really far away there's no point in doing anything really unless you want to keep getting to know her and perhaps you two can meet up at another time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MisterMcGee

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lol yup you see those comments on the profiles of hot girls. "wow looking gorgeous" - "thankss lol! <3"
 
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