"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick reply on girl commenting pic on facebook

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Was on facebook and this girl commented on my pic saying 'you look cute here", should I compliment bac saying "thanx you don't look bad yourself, I dont know this girl but she look lyk shes a 7.5 to me. What you guys think?

People are saying not cause she didn't open a conversation, all she did was leave a simple compliment but can at least jus leave a compliment on her pic as well. If a unknown girl is complimenting a pic of me at least i should respond back and take advange of the move she did...I guess?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
 
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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
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Thats actually really good thanx man, cause others on a different forum said responding will jus make it awkward...but **** them ill follow dat advice
 
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AGBourne said:
Send her a message and tell her,

"Thanks, we are the cutest two people on facebook."

Follow it up later in a few days, open up a conversation. Look at her profile before hand and learn about her.

If she isn't your friend, befriend her now.

You want to open up a conversation between you two, if you don't know what actually to talk about just make up a story and make her a part of it.

Not you, me but we.
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send it to her, and she wrote back "agreed haha", should i do anything or wat
 
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Find out where she stay. If it's nearby ask her out sometime. If she's really far away there's no point in doing anything really unless you want to keep getting to know her and perhaps you two can meet up at another time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol yup you see those comments on the profiles of hot girls. "wow looking gorgeous" - "thankss lol! <3"
 
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