"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alright haha this is kinda funny, but I was just wondering my name is pretty long umm it's Constantino. Anyways I was just wondering when walking up to a girl should I say my full name or a nick name people I know call me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright like most of my friends call my Connie, so is that straight to tell a girl to call me that.
 

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cmg113 said:
Alright like most of my friends call my Connie, so is that straight to tell a girl to call me that.
Hmm, I don't care for Connie. Ususally names ending with a "y" or "ie" suffix sound girly or boyish. I'd call you Con.
 

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haha yeah thats why i was asking, i dont want to sound girly haha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ME Hi whats your name?
HER Blah whats urs?
ME Well my friends call me noir, but my real name is noirsake. you can call me noirsake
 

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noirsake said:
ME Hi whats your name?
HER Blah whats urs?
ME Well my friends call me noir, but my real name is noirsake. you can call me noirsake
So simple yet I love it.

And to the OP please do not tell a girl your name is connie. :nono: I would start going by Con.:rockon:
 

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umm like all the girls i am friends with call me connie, but like yeah i see what your saying for having them call me con, but i dont know im just not used to saying im "con"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stan isn't a bad name either, I would go with that.
 

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I would go with Con and then you can pull some act about being a con artist if thats your kinda game. Then when you get to know her better she'll start callin you Connie anyway as like a pet name. Or you can try something I do where I let people close to me call me "Ry-Ry" (my bro's version of Ryan). So when you start sleeping with her or somin you can let her call you Connie and in her mind it'll make her feel special to you without you actually having to do anything.
 
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