"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright haha this is kinda funny, but I was just wondering my name is pretty long umm it's Constantino. Anyways I was just wondering when walking up to a girl should I say my full name or a nick name people I know call me.
 

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Alright like most of my friends call my Connie, so is that straight to tell a girl to call me that.
 

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cmg113 said:
Alright like most of my friends call my Connie, so is that straight to tell a girl to call me that.
Hmm, I don't care for Connie. Ususally names ending with a "y" or "ie" suffix sound girly or boyish. I'd call you Con.
 

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haha yeah thats why i was asking, i dont want to sound girly haha
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ME Hi whats your name?
HER Blah whats urs?
ME Well my friends call me noir, but my real name is noirsake. you can call me noirsake
 

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noirsake said:
ME Hi whats your name?
HER Blah whats urs?
ME Well my friends call me noir, but my real name is noirsake. you can call me noirsake
So simple yet I love it.

And to the OP please do not tell a girl your name is connie. :nono: I would start going by Con.:rockon:
 

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umm like all the girls i am friends with call me connie, but like yeah i see what your saying for having them call me con, but i dont know im just not used to saying im "con"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stan isn't a bad name either, I would go with that.
 

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I would go with Con and then you can pull some act about being a con artist if thats your kinda game. Then when you get to know her better she'll start callin you Connie anyway as like a pet name. Or you can try something I do where I let people close to me call me "Ry-Ry" (my bro's version of Ryan). So when you start sleeping with her or somin you can let her call you Connie and in her mind it'll make her feel special to you without you actually having to do anything.
 
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