"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Quick questionnn

cmg113

New Member
Joined
Jul 27, 2007
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Alright haha this is kinda funny, but I was just wondering my name is pretty long umm it's Constantino. Anyways I was just wondering when walking up to a girl should I say my full name or a nick name people I know call me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

cmg113

New Member
Joined
Jul 27, 2007
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Alright like most of my friends call my Connie, so is that straight to tell a girl to call me that.
 

aussiegoat55

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2007
Messages
210
Reaction score
1
cmg113 said:
Alright like most of my friends call my Connie, so is that straight to tell a girl to call me that.
Hmm, I don't care for Connie. Ususally names ending with a "y" or "ie" suffix sound girly or boyish. I'd call you Con.
 

cmg113

New Member
Joined
Jul 27, 2007
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
haha yeah thats why i was asking, i dont want to sound girly haha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

noirsake

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2007
Messages
172
Reaction score
1
Location
Cawabunga
ME Hi whats your name?
HER Blah whats urs?
ME Well my friends call me noir, but my real name is noirsake. you can call me noirsake
 

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
noirsake said:
ME Hi whats your name?
HER Blah whats urs?
ME Well my friends call me noir, but my real name is noirsake. you can call me noirsake
So simple yet I love it.

And to the OP please do not tell a girl your name is connie. :nono: I would start going by Con.:rockon:
 

cmg113

New Member
Joined
Jul 27, 2007
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
umm like all the girls i am friends with call me connie, but like yeah i see what your saying for having them call me con, but i dont know im just not used to saying im "con"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Axcell

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2007
Messages
519
Reaction score
6
Stan isn't a bad name either, I would go with that.
 

Plec07

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2006
Messages
383
Reaction score
7
Location
Berkshire, England
I would go with Con and then you can pull some act about being a con artist if thats your kinda game. Then when you get to know her better she'll start callin you Connie anyway as like a pet name. Or you can try something I do where I let people close to me call me "Ry-Ry" (my bro's version of Ryan). So when you start sleeping with her or somin you can let her call you Connie and in her mind it'll make her feel special to you without you actually having to do anything.
 
Top