"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Meet this chick yesterday(Thursday),got her number. Now I would like to take her out,but I have very little time after work and college. Would it be too quick to call her today(Friday) and ask her to run some errands with me tommorow(Saturday)? I wont have time to take her out until next weekend,unless I can pull it off for Saturday. I have never been in this type of situation being so busy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sure.

Remember, naturals dont follow any rules, they just do what they feel like doing.
 
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STOPPPPPPPPPPPP, LOL

Listen to me buddy, you want pvssy right?
Lots of it?
Leave this site, go to www.fastseduction.com, look in the player guide, beginning reading it....start under the part where they talk about eliciting values, do that....okay?

IF, IF, IF, a girl likes you, you can call her like a bill collector, which is all day! She will like you, IF, you are the "guy" she fvcks. You won't know that "guy" until you learn how to elicit her values.

Just go do it, and post your field results here. You should get a lay if you do it right.
 

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DonJuanForever said:
STOPPPPPPPPPPPP, LOL

Listen to me buddy, you want pvssy right?
Lots of it?
Leave this site, go to www.fastseduction.com, look in the player guide, beginning reading it....start under the part where they talk about eliciting values, do that....okay?
Great tip,alrady added the site to my favorites.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ok well to start off I called her up,offered her the chance to hang with me tommorow but instead said "how about tonight". I took her up and we meet up at a park. Boy oh boy I blew a damn tire on my Boxster as she was driving up. That kinda killed the date idea,as I was changing the tire. She tells me she is going to hangout with her boyfriend later and I thought nothing of it. Everything went great,got her laughing,eye contact,not much kino but I was upset about my damage to my wheel and tires($250),even though I tried not to show it. Now her boyfriend calls and she says to not say a word so I turn on my radio and start cranking tunes. She fought with me and made sure that I wouldnt turn it up,involving kino. Now she leaves and so do I,her to her boyfriend and me to a party of a friends. Two hours later I receive a text message from her asking what Iam doing. What is this girl up to,any clues?
 

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Hold up. Stop right there.

She has a bf? Are you planning to steal her? I hope you are, and I hope you can. Cuz if you're doing anything like, waiting for her to leave him for you, or to break-up, dont. Please dont. Oh jeebus dont. But you knew that right? Right.

Also, she accepted this date with you and she has a bf? Sounds real loyal...

Whatever, go for what you want. Hope it works out.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Hold up. Stop right there.

She has a bf? Are you planning to steal her? I hope you are, and I hope you can. Cuz if you're doing anything like, waiting for her to leave him for you, or to break-up, dont. Please dont. Oh jeebus dont. But you knew that right? Right.

Also, she accepted this date with you and she has a bf? Sounds real loyal...

Whatever, go for what you want. Hope it works out.
Yes,I'am not looking to make her a girlfriend,more of a special type of buddy.:D She is nice,has a smoking body,and is unbeleivably naturally beautiful.

I played the waiting game in high school,and I have learned my lesson.

I honestly appreciate the support. I have already received 10 text messages from her since the date. I only respond to half of them so she gets frustrated with me(playing hard to get). I forgot to mention that during the date I can tell that she has been pampered by society her whole life,and pushing her buttons is working.
 

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She now says that Iam "****y and funny",yes,there you have it,I played my cards right no one has ever come out to me and said that. She also says she has no clue what to do with me,I have her so confused(I tease her alot). Many thanks to my brothers on this board who have " fine tuned" my lady aspect of life.
 

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I hope you are still DJing other women.

You do the following, keep the txts limited and vague, etc. And, two days before you are ready, ask her over to your place, and *watch a movie*.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SamePendo said:
I hope you are still DJing other women.
Oh you know it! I have this 20 year old mom that comes in my job to visit me. Sarge on!
 
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