Meet this chick yesterday(Thursday),got her number. Now I would like to take her out,but I have very little time after work and college. Would it be too quick to call her today(Friday) and ask her to run some errands with me tommorow(Saturday)? I wont have time to take her out until next weekend,unless I can pull it off for Saturday. I have never been in this type of situation being so busy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonJuanForever
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STOPPPPPPPPPPPP, LOL
Listen to me buddy, you want pvssy right?
Lots of it?
Leave this site, go to www.fastseduction.com, look in the player guide, beginning reading it....start under the part where they talk about eliciting values, do that....okay?
IF, IF, IF, a girl likes you, you can call her like a bill collector, which is all day! She will like you, IF, you are the "guy" she fvcks. You won't know that "guy" until you learn how to elicit her values.
Just go do it, and post your field results here. You should get a lay if you do it right.
Listen to me buddy, you want pvssy right?
Lots of it?
Leave this site, go to www.fastseduction.com, look in the player guide, beginning reading it....start under the part where they talk about eliciting values, do that....okay?
IF, IF, IF, a girl likes you, you can call her like a bill collector, which is all day! She will like you, IF, you are the "guy" she fvcks. You won't know that "guy" until you learn how to elicit her values.
Just go do it, and post your field results here. You should get a lay if you do it right.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ok well to start off I called her up,offered her the chance to hang with me tommorow but instead said "how about tonight". I took her up and we meet up at a park. Boy oh boy I blew a damn tire on my Boxster as she was driving up. That kinda killed the date idea,as I was changing the tire. She tells me she is going to hangout with her boyfriend later and I thought nothing of it. Everything went great,got her laughing,eye contact,not much kino but I was upset about my damage to my wheel and tires($250),even though I tried not to show it. Now her boyfriend calls and she says to not say a word so I turn on my radio and start cranking tunes. She fought with me and made sure that I wouldnt turn it up,involving kino. Now she leaves and so do I,her to her boyfriend and me to a party of a friends. Two hours later I receive a text message from her asking what Iam doing. What is this girl up to,any clues?
Ace of Flames
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Hold up. Stop right there.
She has a bf? Are you planning to steal her? I hope you are, and I hope you can. Cuz if you're doing anything like, waiting for her to leave him for you, or to break-up, dont. Please dont. Oh jeebus dont. But you knew that right? Right.
Also, she accepted this date with you and she has a bf? Sounds real loyal...
Whatever, go for what you want. Hope it works out.
She has a bf? Are you planning to steal her? I hope you are, and I hope you can. Cuz if you're doing anything like, waiting for her to leave him for you, or to break-up, dont. Please dont. Oh jeebus dont. But you knew that right? Right.
Also, she accepted this date with you and she has a bf? Sounds real loyal...
Whatever, go for what you want. Hope it works out.
Yes,I'am not looking to make her a girlfriend,more of a special type of buddy.Ace of Flames said:
She is nice,has a smoking body,and is unbeleivably naturally beautiful.I played the waiting game in high school,and I have learned my lesson.
I honestly appreciate the support. I have already received 10 text messages from her since the date. I only respond to half of them so she gets frustrated with me(playing hard to get). I forgot to mention that during the date I can tell that she has been pampered by society her whole life,and pushing her buttons is working.
She now says that Iam "****y and funny",yes,there you have it,I played my cards right no one has ever come out to me and said that. She also says she has no clue what to do with me,I have her so confused(I tease her alot). Many thanks to my brothers on this board who have " fine tuned" my lady aspect of life.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.