Meet this chick yesterday(Thursday),got her number. Now I would like to take her out,but I have very little time after work and college. Would it be too quick to call her today(Friday) and ask her to run some errands with me tommorow(Saturday)? I wont have time to take her out until next weekend,unless I can pull it off for Saturday. I have never been in this type of situation being so busy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonJuanForever
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STOPPPPPPPPPPPP, LOL
Listen to me buddy, you want pvssy right?
Lots of it?
Leave this site, go to www.fastseduction.com, look in the player guide, beginning reading it....start under the part where they talk about eliciting values, do that....okay?
IF, IF, IF, a girl likes you, you can call her like a bill collector, which is all day! She will like you, IF, you are the "guy" she fvcks. You won't know that "guy" until you learn how to elicit her values.
Just go do it, and post your field results here. You should get a lay if you do it right.
Listen to me buddy, you want pvssy right?
Lots of it?
Leave this site, go to www.fastseduction.com, look in the player guide, beginning reading it....start under the part where they talk about eliciting values, do that....okay?
IF, IF, IF, a girl likes you, you can call her like a bill collector, which is all day! She will like you, IF, you are the "guy" she fvcks. You won't know that "guy" until you learn how to elicit her values.
Just go do it, and post your field results here. You should get a lay if you do it right.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ok well to start off I called her up,offered her the chance to hang with me tommorow but instead said "how about tonight". I took her up and we meet up at a park. Boy oh boy I blew a damn tire on my Boxster as she was driving up. That kinda killed the date idea,as I was changing the tire. She tells me she is going to hangout with her boyfriend later and I thought nothing of it. Everything went great,got her laughing,eye contact,not much kino but I was upset about my damage to my wheel and tires($250),even though I tried not to show it. Now her boyfriend calls and she says to not say a word so I turn on my radio and start cranking tunes. She fought with me and made sure that I wouldnt turn it up,involving kino. Now she leaves and so do I,her to her boyfriend and me to a party of a friends. Two hours later I receive a text message from her asking what Iam doing. What is this girl up to,any clues?
Ace of Flames
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Hold up. Stop right there.
She has a bf? Are you planning to steal her? I hope you are, and I hope you can. Cuz if you're doing anything like, waiting for her to leave him for you, or to break-up, dont. Please dont. Oh jeebus dont. But you knew that right? Right.
Also, she accepted this date with you and she has a bf? Sounds real loyal...
Whatever, go for what you want. Hope it works out.
She has a bf? Are you planning to steal her? I hope you are, and I hope you can. Cuz if you're doing anything like, waiting for her to leave him for you, or to break-up, dont. Please dont. Oh jeebus dont. But you knew that right? Right.
Also, she accepted this date with you and she has a bf? Sounds real loyal...
Whatever, go for what you want. Hope it works out.
Yes,I'am not looking to make her a girlfriend,more of a special type of buddy.Ace of Flames said:
She is nice,has a smoking body,and is unbeleivably naturally beautiful.I played the waiting game in high school,and I have learned my lesson.
I honestly appreciate the support. I have already received 10 text messages from her since the date. I only respond to half of them so she gets frustrated with me(playing hard to get). I forgot to mention that during the date I can tell that she has been pampered by society her whole life,and pushing her buttons is working.
She now says that Iam "****y and funny",yes,there you have it,I played my cards right no one has ever come out to me and said that. She also says she has no clue what to do with me,I have her so confused(I tease her alot). Many thanks to my brothers on this board who have " fine tuned" my lady aspect of life.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.